I was having coffee with *Bernard at Starbucks and we talked about a lot of stuff. About life, love and everything under the sun.
And during our long conversation, the topic about different types of people came about.
It’s actually more about different types of people when it comes to getting attached. I was saying, and he agreed with me, that there are 2 main types:
1) Those who want to get to know the other person (through dating, whatsoever) before getting attached
2) Those who don’t mind getting attached quickly as they reason out that they have all the time to get to know the person better once they are attached
I am sure this applies not only to the aj circle but to straight couples as well.
As for me, I guess I would prefer to get to know the person better first before jumping into anything official. I am the type who really puts in a lot of emotional input in a relationship. I don’t know if it is like safeguarding myself but I would definitely want to make sure that the person I am ‘dating’ is the ONE for me. I would not want to regret my decisions in the end. Hmm.
But I strongly believe that when it comes, it comes. So I guess I should just take things as they come.